HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN
(The 5 rules)
What better way to learn how to attract women than by learning from a woman?
I know I know, most women usually dish out the same old vague and nice but essentially ineffective advice such as:
“Just be yourself”
“Be more confident”
“Make her laugh”
Which in all fairness is pretty lame! And you are probably sick of your female friends giving you weak feedback. Equally, you are also probably tired of hearing the arrogant and ineffective advice from your male friends.
However, have you ever considered what it would be like to get an HONEST female opinion and an HONEST and NO NONSENSE and DIRECT insight into the female mind?
Obtaining such a powerful tool, is something that most male dating coaches and so called pick up artists will struggle to give you.
I have taught over 18,000 men HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN, regardless of their age, social status,income,height, cultural background and initial sticking points.
It has taken much time and much trial error and to find out what the ingredients are to attract women, and of course mastering the art of attracting women requires practice, but here are the 5 MAIN RULES that are vital in your success of attracting women and how to talk to a girl.
Men need to understand and follow these rules in order to attract an abundance of women into their lives.
This_is_how_you_attract_women by Kezia Noble
RULE 1
Always view a ‘negative’ as a potential ‘positive’A girls says she has boyfriend. Most guys see this as a block or a sign of rejection, where as a man who is able to attract women, will reply with the responses that I provide him, to turn her statement into an opportunity to win her over. In time, all my students are able to come up with their own BRILLIANT responses that result in turning the whole interaction around into their favour!
RULE 2
Make a strong IMPACT by pattern breaking.
You need to stand out from all the other men who try to pick her up. She has heard every line in the book! What makes you stand out from all the others? What is your opening line? What is your response to her reaction, and your reaction to her response?
You temporarily become a TV commercial. You have a 1 minute slot, what are you going to do? Are you going to say the same old crap every other guy says to her? Or are you going to make impact?
RULE 3
Make a CONNECTION
This does NOT mean you should agree with her opinions, or points of views, or even have ANYTHING IN COMMON with her!
Connection means challenging her opinions and ideals which will result in conveying the fact that you too share her ‘passion’ in whatever it is you believe in.It also means getting behind the mask she wears ( every girl wears a mask)
A girl is NEVER looking for an agreeable man who nods his head to what ever she says. She is e looking for men who can challenge her and who can MATCH her passion regardless whether his opinions are in line with her or not.
Mr Nice guy always finishes last, because Mr Nice guy is bland, forgettable and replaceable, and is a compulsive head nodder.
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RULE 4
ALWAYS demonstrate high value.
Women are looking for a man that is in a higher position than they are mentally and emotionally.
This does not means they are looking for a guy who is richer than they are or who has a good job, or who has a high social status. The truth is, they are looking for a man who is stronger than them in regards to his character and sense of direction, and what he wants out of life!
Weakness is a major TURN OFF for women! Uncertainty and having an apologetic nature will totally RUIN your chances of attracting women.
RULE 5
Always be closing.
Men often end up in the dreaded ‘friend zone’ as a result of a multitude of reasons ( Including the lack of understanding of all the elements mentioned above) But the main reason why guys simply end up as the forever ‘lovable companion’, is because they fFAIL to CLOSE or SEAL the deal with the girl they like. Men get side tracked, they lose their nerve, their miss opportunities, and they
just simply DO NOT know what to do!
The ability to escalate the interaction from something plutonic to something sexual is as skill in itself , and it is something myself and my incredible team of both male and female instructors on the team teach men how to do on our PICK UP COURSES.
I have literally a treasure trove of information, tips, skills and techniques that will help ANY man attract the woman of his dreams, and all of those incredibly powerful nuggets of information are based around the 5 rules that I have only touched on briefly in this blog post.
How_to_attract_your_type_of_girl by Kezia Noble